My Neighbor Chapter 4
Wednesday 23rd November, 2016
Not recommended for readers under 17yrs
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My mother stared at me as if I
was mad.
"Kareema, kin fara shaye-shaye
ne ko mai ne? What did I just hear you say?" she asked sharply.
She had come visiting from her
home in the Worno area of town. We were in my small sitting room upstairs where
I had my sewing machine and other stuff I used for my sewing. After I left
school, I had learnt fashion designing and I did a little sewing once in a
while to keep busy and not for money.
I placed the blouse I was
sewing for her on the table and turned to her.
"Mum, you heard me. I’ll
request for divorce from Ghaddafi," I repeated patiently as if talking to
a child.
A divorce?
On what grounds?
What has your husband done to you
that you want to leave him?" she demanded.
I sighed before stating:
"That's the problem, Mum.
He doesn't do anything! He's hardly around in the name of work. I've endured it
for over six years and that's many years of my life wasted on an 'empty'
marriage," I explained.
My mother shook her head,
looking at me in a pitying manner.
"I can't believe this is
coming from you. You want a divorce because your husband is hardly around
because of his work? Are you crazy or what? Are you the only one in such a
situation? What about the many women around whose husbands live and work abroad
while they remain in Nigeria? Have they all filed for divorce from their
husbands?" she demanded, her voice becoming angrier by the minute.
I did not care if she was mad
at me or not. It was my life, my happiness at stake here. Whatever she felt
about the matter would not dissuade me from what I intended doing about my
situation. It was a choice I had to make between my husband or my lover.
It was obvious that my
marriage to Ghaddafi had grown stale, caused mostly by his long absences from
home. Ok. He made a lot of money which enabled us to live a certain lifestyle.
But was money everything? What about love, companionship, commitment- vital
ingredients in a marriage all of which were lacking in mine?
“It was my affair with Bako that
opened my eyes to what had been missing in my marriage. Before Bako, it was
like I was just existing, just going through the motions of living. He opened a
whole new world to me which I would be crazy not to hold on to... “that keep
ringing in my head
"Look, Kareema," my
mother was now saying. "I don't know who's putting these silly ideas in
your head, making you think of leaving your husband. The person is just
deceiving you! He/She doesn't wish you well!
"How can you talk of
leaving a man like Ghaddafi, who has been so good to you and our family? Have
you forgotten so soon the assistance he rendered to us after your father's
death? Who trained your younger brothers up to the university level? Who's
still supporting us till today? The same man you want to divorce! You should
stop whatever you're drinking so you can come back to your senses!
"You want a divorce! Go
divorce him let me see! Silly child!" she fumed. And picking up her
hang bag matched towards the door.
"Mum, wait! Your blouse
is almost ready..." I stated.
She ignored me and left,
banging the door angrily after her...
I tapped my feet to the
poignant notes of the guitar as Bako strummed and played for me. It was one of
his favorite songs.
We were at his friend Khalid's
place where we often met when we did not go to the guest house. Khalid was a
music producer/promoter who had all kinds of musical instruments in his house.
I did not know Bako could play
any instrument until our first day at the house. He had picked up a guitar and
played me a touching song he had even composed 'especially for you,' he had
stated.
He had chosen Coldplay's The
Scientist to play for me that evening.
'Nobody said it was easy
No one ever said it would be
this hard
Oh, take me back to the start'
"What a sad song. It's
like he lost somebody," I stated softly when he stopped playing.
He placed the guitar by his
side and said:
"Relationship troubles,
more like." He paused then said:
"Such as we would have
if your mother has her way."
He was right. About a month
after our argument at the house, my mother, having found out about Bako had
explicitly told me, no, ordered me to end the relationship before, 'Ghaddafi
finds out!'
"Whatever you have with
that man must stop!" she had stated vociferously on the phone. "What
has come over you, Kareema? You used to be the reasonable and level headed one
among my children. Now this! Dating another man, one who happens to be your
husband's tenant? What do you think your husband will say or do if he finds
out? You better stop the affair before it’s too late! Don't say I didn't warn
you! Or I’ll descend curse on you! "
"She doesn't want me to
see you anymore," I now said.
"And what do you
want?" he enquired, gazing at me.
I drew his head close, resting
it on my chest.
"You. I want you,
sweetheart. All of you," I told him.
"That's good to hear.
Because I want you too," he said, cuddling close to me on the settee, his
had slipping inside my top...
I refused to listen to my mother and
continued to see Bako. I was in love with him and not ready to let go no matter
the opposition. In fact the more opposition we faced, the more I stuck with
him.
It reached a stage where I
decided to start the divorce proceedings so I got a lawyer. My intention was to
inform Ghaddafi about it the next time he was home for his break from work.
Once I was free, the plan was for Bako and I to leave the country and start a
new life together.
Things were going well until
one evening when I got a phone call from a strange man who asked:
"Are you Kareema, Mr Ghaddafi's
wife?"
What's the mystery phone call all
about?
Keep following me the concluding
part of this story will be over next week Insha Allah. Don't miss it!
To Be Continued Saturday 26th November Insha Allah...
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